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Casual dating in London without the weird DMs: how rizzed works

Effective 31 August 2026 · getrizzed.app · 18+ only

31 August 2026

Casual dating in London used to mean one of two things: swipe through hundreds of profiles hoping someone has the same idea as you, or wade through a inbox of unsolicited messages from people you never liked in the first place.

Neither is casual. Both are exhausting.

rizzed flips it. You see what someone wants before you like them — something real, casual-open-to-more, just vibes, figuring it out, friends-maybe-more. You only chat when you've both said yes. And you're not paying just to filter out the noise.

Intent sits on the card

When you set up rizzed, you choose your intent. Not your bio, not some buried setting: right there on your card, where anyone thinking about liking you can see it.

Something real. Casual, open to more. Just vibes. Figuring it out. Friends, maybe more.

This matters because casual doesn't mean the same thing to everyone. You might want something that could go somewhere. Someone else might be after no-strings vibes. Another person is genuinely figuring out what they want. Without intent on the card, you're all swiping blind, and half your matches are people who wanted something else.

Intent flips that. You see theirs. They see yours. You like someone because you actually want the same thing — or at least you're both honest about what you don't.

It's not a personality test. It's not a promise. It's just the truth upfront.

Chat opens when you both want it

One of the worst parts of dating apps is the unsolicited message. Someone likes your photo, and now your inbox is full of "hey" from profiles you didn't like, didn't swipe on, didn't ask to hear from.

On rizzed, that doesn't happen.

Chat opens in two ways: you both like each other, or someone sends you a slide. A slide is a capped intro message — not a DM that bypasses consent, and not unlimited messaging to strangers. It's short, it counts toward your daily limit, and you can accept it or pass.

If you don't like someone, they can't message you. If you do like them, or you accept their slide, the chat opens and you can talk properly.

No weird DMs from profiles you've never heard of. No "why didn't you reply" messages. No inbox chaos.

It's consent-first, which sounds like a buzzword until you're on an app where people actually respect it.

Discovery and chatting stay free

A lot of apps make you pay to do the actual dating: pay to see who liked you, pay to message first, pay to keep talking to someone you matched with. It's a trap dressed up as a feature.

On rizzed, discovery and chatting are always free.

On the Free plan, your daily likes and slides are capped — you get a sensible number, then you're done for the day. Plus and Premium add extras: more daily likes, more slides, filters to narrow down who you see. But you're not paying to keep a conversation going. You're not paying to see if someone's into you. You're not paying just to message back.

If you like someone and they like you back, you chat. Full stop.

London launch, 18+ only

rizzed is live in London right now, with other UK cities to come. Everyone on the app is 18+. There's no teen mode, no exceptions.

Before you can start swiping, you age-check. If you're 18–24, you might also need to upload ID plus a face match to prove it's really you. It's a bit of friction, but it means the people you're matching with are actually adults, and the photos are actually them.

You stay hidden until your age check passes. No sneaking on. No catfish profiles from people who grabbed photos off Instagram. No one pretending to be someone else.

Web at getrizzed.app, iOS and Android — same account across all three. Log in once, see your matches everywhere.

Casual is a vibe, not a free-for-all

Casual dating should feel easy and clear, not chaotic. You should know what someone wants before you like them. You should only chat with people who want to chat with you. You shouldn't have to pay just to filter out the noise.

That's rizzed.

You see intent. You like who you like. Chat opens when it's mutual. No guessing, no unsolicited messages, no weird inbox full of people you never asked to hear from.

Casual, clear, and on your terms.

Start rizzing in London.

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